When we were young and passionate, it was a crime to be apathetic and being spiteful was a merit.
Even being apathetic took hard work because you needed to look cool.
Now, there is a perfect reason to be apathetic and you are given all the right to do it.
Yes, you are right. "Pick the right battle" is the new excuse.
Actually, that’s a comment from all my supervisors.
"You should just let it go. Pick the right battle. This is not the one."
Turned out that there are things in life that are wrong, unfair, incorrect and it’s ok to let it be.
And it’s a merit on your score card to let go 95% of things in your career life, because it means you are mature.
Some people say the right battle are the battles you can win beautifully = result-oriented.
Some people say the right battle is the last battle before it hits your bottom line = defensive.
Some people say the right battle is the battle that doesn’t cost you anything to fight = minimalist.
Using minimal effort to defense and generate result is the most efficient way to work and that gets to be applied to fighting for what you deserved.
What you get at the end is a stomach of frustration and desperation. I really don’t quite understand.
But it’s ok. Sooner or later, you will not bother to care about it anymore.